Drawing the Line..

When does a person start loosing faith or confidence in oneself?? When the others opinions becomes more than just that..When we start loosing self.. When we let the world's ideas of do's and dont's seep in and take over..
Is shunning away from it all the only way to keep faith and confidence?? Maybe not..That would be disregarding the laws of coexistence ..So where do we draw the line?

There is no definite Black and white's in life, but just a lot of grays..Who is to say what is black and what is not? It is for us to decide how dark or light a shade of gray we want to live in..Again the distinction between dark and light being the person's choice and not the world's..Having the freedom to choose and make decisions..is that all we need to feel confident? It might sound like it is enough, but the key is having the strength to stick with our decisions..Never allowing the preconceived ideas of others taint the confident choices ..

So what do we do when the confidence choices are threatened?? My theory is simple..Take others opinions for what they are..nothing more than just opinions.. The final decision is always ours.As long as we are  not treading on someone else gray area, be happy with our choices ..Never loosing faith..